Untangle

How to stop letting your divorce define you and start building a life that is entirely yours.

- 60-minute on-demand workshop - Watch in your own time - Companion workbook included - One payment of £37

You are still standing. Now it is time to stop just surviving and start moving forward.

You are in the thick of it - the process, the decisions, the exhausting back-and-forth. This workshop gives you a framework for handling all of it without losing yourself in the process.

What this stage actually feels like

You are managing the divorce. But the divorce is also managing you.

I know what it is like to dread the next message. To spend hours composing a reply, trying to get the tone exactly right. To walk away from a conversation feeling like you lost something - your composure, your confidence, your sense of who you are in all of this.

Most people going through divorce put all their energy into the legal and practical side and leave nothing for themselves. The result is that even when the divorce ends, they feel hollowed out.

Untangle is built around one idea: that the way you navigate this process determines who you are on the other side of it. Every reaction is a choice. And your choices are building someone.

"The process is temporary. Who you become through it is permanent."

What is inside

Sixty minutes. Four chapters. A framework you will use long after the divorce is over.

The Event - what you cannot control

Your ex. The legal process. The difficult conversations that keep arriving. These are Events - they happen to you. The first step is getting clear on what is and is not yours to control.

The Reaction - three layers

Your immediate response. The story you tell yourself afterwards. And the beliefs underneath that are running the show. This chapter - the most powerful one - is where we do the deep work.

The Outcome - your RESET vision

What are you actually working toward? Three sentences that describe the life you are building - specific, sensory, entirely yours. This is the anchor every Reaction is in service of.

The REACT pause - in practice

The five-step tool for handling anything your divorce throws at you in real time. Recognise. Exhale. Ask. Choose. Trust. Practised until it becomes instinct.

What people say

Real words from real people who have been exactly where you are.

When my husband told me he wanted a divorce, I was devastated. Jonathan's calm, reassuring guidance helped me find my footing again. Within weeks, I felt stronger, more confident, and ready to face the future.

- Jaks

Working with Jonathan was better than I could have imagined. He understood what I was going through and guided me with calm and clarity through one of the hardest periods of my life.

- Andy

I was nervous before our first conversation, but Jonathan's calm, reassuring approach put me completely at ease. I've come away feeling stronger, clearer, and ready to move forward with confidence.

- Jayne

When my ex dropped the bomb, I was a mess. Jonathan helped me move fast - getting mediation in place, setting clear boundaries, and protecting myself and my children. It saved time, money, and a lot of pain.

- Mark

Hi, I am Jonathan Burston

I am the founder of RESET 2 Breakthrough. I went through my own divorce in 2012 - and in the years surrounding it I also lost my mother, was made redundant, and had to rebuild my identity from the ground up.

What I learned through all of it is that the way you navigate this process matters. Not just for how it ends legally - but for who you are on the other side of it.

Untangle is built on everything I learned - and everything I have taught to the clients and community of over 10,500 people I have worked with since.

Ready when you are

Untangle

On-demand workshop + companion workbook

£37

✓ 60-minute on-demand video workshop
✓ E + R = O framework in full
✓ The three layers of Reaction
✓ The RESET vision exercise
✓ The REACT pause tool
✓ Lifetime access - no time pressure

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Questions

How long is the workshop?

Sixty minutes across four chapters. You can watch it in one sitting or return to chapters separately - both work.

Do I need to have done Steady first?

No. Untangle works as a standalone workshop. If you are in the active process of your divorce - dealing with the ex, the decisions, the day-to-day navigation - this is built for exactly where you are.

How is this different from Reset Divorce?

Untangle is a focused workshop on the E + R = O framework and how to apply it to your divorce right now. Reset Divorce is the full programme covering the complete journey from separation to a life you are genuinely excited about. Untangle is a chapter. Reset Divorce is the whole journey.

What if I have a question after watching?

You can reach me at hello@reset2breakthrough.com. I read every message personally.

The process is temporary. Who you become through it is permanent.

Untangle gives you the framework for making sure the person you become is one you are proud of.

Get Untangle - £37

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